Tag Archives: psychopathic abuse

5 Tips to Help Resolve Cognitive Dissonance

Here are some links to resources that have helped me: Spartan Life Coach YouTube and Forum: https://www.youtube.com/user/SPARTANLIFECOACH http://spartanlifecoach.unlimitedforum.com/ Thrive After Abuse YouTube and Forum: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUVh2cwep3jCYwDjE689Wg http://narcissistsupport.com/forum/ Self Care Haven YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYu9wGUUjB6LQAAO2b81zZg Books: PsychopathFree by Mackenzie Jackson The Sociopath Next Door by Martha Stout Without Conscience by Dr. Robert Hare Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving… Read More »

Catching Myself Catastrophizing

“You have to laugh at yourself. Otherwise you’ll waste all that great material.” – Mark Driscoll Today I wanted to share with you an example of catastrophizing…meaning, I am totally guilty and am so ridiculous with it that I have to share and laugh at myself!! But seriously, when we immediately imagine the worst case… Read More »

The Narcissist True and False Self and CPTSD

DISCLAIMER: I totally made a mistake in one of my references. The NPI is not in the Thomas Sheridan book I referenced..I must have been remembering something else. WOOPS! I don’t remember where I actually found the NPI test…but Puzzing People is still a good book though so you should totally still read it 🙂… Read More »

Codependency, CPTSD, and That Electric Connection with Narcissists

I’ve been hearing a lot of talk lately about the intense magnetic feelings of attraction we get to narcissists and psychopaths, and I wanted to share my thought process on how that works. Also, how becoming healthier and more self-fulfilled people can make that attraction…well….not so attractive. Here’s a link to Ross Rosenberg’s video talking… Read More »

Narcissists Drink Your Sadness and Torment

Narcissists get fueled by making you sad or angry. They do not react in a normal way to making you upset because they intentionally cause this in order to drink it up. for coaching – gentlekindnesscoaching.com Source: Youtube